A Lot of Action

I wasn't sure how to write this post, but I guess I figured it out. Basically, I see both sides of Kara's last post. I agree with her that people should wait until they have a solid job with a steady flow of income and they have the fortitude to handle all the responsibilities of an engagement or marriage before they decide to get married; however, I also understand the people who want to get married early.

I prefer to wait until I am established and completely ready to get married. There's no reason to rush it, I do have the rest of my life to be married. Yet, I know from friends and family that some people disagree and get married right when they know they have found that special person. Some people get married because they don't see the point in waiting. If they love each other, they will make it work, no matter what difficulties a young married couple can come across.

So I guess what I am saying is that it really doesn't matter. It is up to each and every couple to decide if they want to get married young, or wait a little longer. I just prefer to wait a little longer because I feel as though there would be more strain and problems to solve. No matter when you decide to get married, marriage is a long and difficult journey with plenty of ups and downs along the way.